It's been a long time since I've been intermit with with someone who enjoys the passion sex can bring.  My ex partner of many years who I can't say a bad word against, bless her cotton socks, unfortunately did not have a sexual bone in her body.  It's been hard (excuse the pun) not being able to explore my sexual self with someone who also has similar desires. 

If there is any genuine people out there who have been in or are in a relationship but are missing on physical passion, maybe this is a place problems can be fixed?

Would like to here from either male or female.